Hi Freshie Girl, Dr Fred Clarke (if that's the same surgeon... in Sydney area?) seems to be the new fave plastic surgeon. There are many ladies who have had him perform their reconstructions recently and all reports I hear are good. Good surgeon and nice as well.
Like Paula said, try the Breast Reconstruction Online Group, also if you are on Facebook there is a reconstruction closed group called Reclaim Your Curves....it can be a daunting process but doable with the right support.
Remember you can have reconstruction at the time of mastectomy, or at anytime later, called delayed. Its a personal preference, chatting to other ladies can help with the decision process.
Stay in touch XXXLouie