Lots of good advice from others, hope it helps. On the other side of the coin, I had no reconstruction in 2012 and no regrets. I never really wanted one, my breast surgeon preferred to do a reconstruction later, which was fine as I was not at all sure, I then decided more surgery wasn't a priority either. I didn't think the scar would worry me (it hasn't), I wear a prosthesis and haven't had to adjust what I wear or what I do. It's an intensely personal thing, and you are doing the right thing in getting as much information about your choices and your circumstances. Best wishes whatever you decide.