PaulaN
9 years agoMember
Reconstruction & Doctors Not Telling Everything
OK heres the update. Saw the boob specialist Fri 3rd & had a mammogram & ultrasound. He told me that the seroma & node that's enlarged hasn't changed & maybe a little smaller. Then saw the plastic surgeon on Wednesday about a reconstruction. They won't do it because of my diabetes & my vascular problems & healing & because it's just too dangerous, they said that they didn't want to kill me. So that's stuffed up a couple of things we were thinking about. As far as the paraplegic issue goes they said that in my case the only way they could do a reconstruction, if they would, is to take muscle & tissue from my back around the shoulder blade & pull that around but that would really affect my mobility or they can leave the muscle & just take the tissue but that would probably affect mobility too. They also looked up the results from Friday & told us that the boob specialist is also watching a node in the right boob but he didn't tell us. We're not happy about that. Then we saw the GP on Friday & were talking about it so he's getting all the results & is going to go through everything with his nurse (who's brilliant) before we see them next week. Then we were talking about the medication (tamoxifan) I've been put on & he told us that it's chemo.The boob specialist didn't tell us that either. I'v also been told by alot of people that it was worse than IV chemo. I'm going to give it a go but if the side effects are as bad as aristozale & letrizole (I know they'e prbably spelt wrong lol) Im not going to stay on it. I can't be bed bound for 10 years. I'm REALLY disappointed about the reconstruction & the other options we were thinking about & not being told about the node & chemo by the boob specialist because he's the one who should have told us that. So I guess we just have to wait & see what happens (I feel like a time bomb). Just another bloody thing to worry about. I hope this all makes sense because I haven't read it through LOL Im sure I'v left out stuff they said, Im just not thinking all that straight atm.