Recently diagnosed and now contemplating double mastectomy. Would really appreciate your thoughts..

Hi @Grace21 I don't think I've ever spoken to a woman who has decided to have a double mastectomy, either on her own or with advice, who has genuinely regretted the decision to go ahead with it. Yes,  they mourn their breasts and there are some crappy stories about failed reconstruction (I'm one of those) but the consensus from those I ve been in contact with is that it is something they would do again in similar circumstances. The caveat here is that there will be others who do regret it. I just haven't spoken to them.
On the other hand I know a number who have circled around the issue and have encountered huge problems later on.
In addition,  I had immediate implant recons at 43, if I'd had my surgery before my chemo, I believe I would not have gone ahead with the cosmetic element. That was long ago and far away, but I think more time may have influenced my decision.
Follow your head and listen to your heart. Mxx