No way....just been diagnosed for the 2nd time! Same boob. Same area....2 lumps....aarrgghh! Off for a masectomy in the next month or so......I am not sleeping as I have no freakin idea which way to go with reconstruction......Crying crying at home but so strong to the outside world....to hard!!!
Hi Deb,
OMG.....it completely sucks hey!!! I just read your blog. I will be thinking about you too!! Take care. We will talk reconstruction together soon!!!!! Stay strong and positive. hugs and kisses lovely!!!!
Kel xxxxx
Sure is Louie........very anxious. Just a quick blog then off to bed. xxxx
Thanks for your wonderful support......you rock!!!
Kel xxxxx
Thank you lovely!!! xxx very anxious. !!!
Hi Kel, what I find great about the procedure I have had is the natural warm new breasts I have that feel and act just like breasts, except of course for the lack of sensation. But the lack of sensation happens with all types of reconstruction i believe.
You have a few things to think about in terms of what will fit with your busy lifestyle at present, and recovery is quite long but not impossible especially if you get good support. And my understanding is that you can delay the reconstruction until it better suits you time wise. The whole tram/diep procedure can take 12 months or more depending if you go public or private. that includes the sometimes 3 procedures until you get to the finished result. If you think you will have a delayed recon due to the skin damage from radiation you have lots of time to plan and some good people to chat to on the recon blog who have gone that way.
There is a lot to consider this time around for you so take your time to get well informed. Find a sympathetic plastic surgeon who will understand your needs and reservations.
My tummy is lovely and flat, still a bit tight sometimes at 5 months on. I have a dirty big crooked scar that has faded a little but should be revised in the next surgery. I have very little sensation in that area too, and not sure if it will return. It doesnt look or feel very natural, like a simple tummy tuck would. I miss my soft belly actually. And my belly button is off centre. All this I can live with but still worth mentioning. Not sure how other women feel about their tummies.
Good luck with it all, and keep us posted.
L:)
Thanks Louise,
Crying is weird. Sometime I can cry easily......then when I want to, I can't....early days for me though!
xxx Kel
Thanks Louie,
Reconstruction scary the crappers out of me......hows the tummy going. I am scared of a long recovery. My kids are only 7 and 9 and I would describe them as "busy" and "spoilt" . A tummy tuck seems positive for baby flab. Its the only thing that gets me a little excited about the whole affair........it makes me sound nutty expressing this!
Stay well
Kel xxx
Thank you Donna.....u take care and enjoy your well deserved holiday!!!!
Kel xx
Thanks Tonya. Wish you a speedy recovery when your surgery goes ahead! Your kind support puts a great big smile on my face!! and tears too xxxx Kel
