I will definitely blog my progress, I hope my experiences can make others decisions easier to make.
My kids have been great too (16,14) I just hope they're nor just putting on a brave face for me. Telling my mum was hard too, she has battled NH Lymphoma for 10 years, then gets diagnosed with BC, then my sister with BC so when I told her she was so angry with the universe. I stayed really positive with her, she got upset and cried and I just let her. She is ok now just anxious about my op and won't rest till all results are clear. Shes a mum and will always worry about her babies even if we are adults. Your mum will be ok just be positive and tell her you need her strength to help get you through, she will be sad and will cry, just let her. You're her baby and she will worry about you! Xx