I too am finding this BCNA site, not always easy. Did Dr Lodge see you as suitable then? Maybe she wants to see you in January when you have made up your mind, and then set a date? I did not have your surgery, but it was still a long one. Yours sounds longer. For her to book your date it would be her whole operating list for that day. I don't think 63 is old for this. But you probably should have general good health. I was 61 on diagnosis and 63 for Recon. I'm not sure if I'm allowed, but did you know that there is an Adelaide facebook group that has some in person get togethers. It's called Adelaide Breast Cancer Friendship Group Chat Room. Did Dr Lodge give you a price for the Recon she was offering you?