@Nay64 - I am So sorry to see you join the club no-one really wants to join .... but you are in the right spot for support & info from those who've 'been there' ... ask away any question .... there are no questions off-limit here. xx. Terrific that you've made contact with your Breast Care Nurse already - You can also chat with the Helpline here too (the phone number is up the top of the page in the Blue Banner.)
It sounds like you have a lovely family - and I hope you have lots of support from all your family & friends, too. You might like to join the Young Women's group .... where conversations are totally private ....
When you have a spare 5 mins, jump onto this thread to read up on some other areas in the forum that you may like to look at ..... there is a link at the bottom for 'tick sheets' to help formulate some questions & ideas on what to take to hospital when you do have your surgery.
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/23477/a-big-welcome-to-all-our-new-members#latestAll the best for your team meeting next week xx