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Cath62
4 years agoMember
Hi @AaryBee, Aaron what a wonderful supportive husband you are. I had a different cancer to your wife but it was aggressive and a high return rate. I am ok. I got through treatment pretty well really. I even amazed myself. I am due my second mammogram since treatment so I am 2 years down.
It was scary at the time and scary for my supportive husband. My husband is a champion and cared for me so well. It's early days but may I suggest that you also look after yourself too as your lovely wife goes through this. We can all give you lots of advice for your wife and we are happy to share experiences with you but to help your wife you It's good to look after you too.
My hubby was stressed and while he initially tried to hide it, I encouraged him to talk about all that fear. He did but initially didn't want to because he felt he should not upset me. It was better we both talked everything through. If you need to see anyone to talk about it all please don't hesitate to get that help.
The other thing my husband did during my treatment was once a fortnight he would take off for a day fishing. That was his time out from it all. He just need that to rejuvenate and come back to help me. Not that you have to go fishing but time with a mate or sport or whatever it is you enjoy can help you through this time too.
Best wishes to you and your wife 💐
It was scary at the time and scary for my supportive husband. My husband is a champion and cared for me so well. It's early days but may I suggest that you also look after yourself too as your lovely wife goes through this. We can all give you lots of advice for your wife and we are happy to share experiences with you but to help your wife you It's good to look after you too.
My hubby was stressed and while he initially tried to hide it, I encouraged him to talk about all that fear. He did but initially didn't want to because he felt he should not upset me. It was better we both talked everything through. If you need to see anyone to talk about it all please don't hesitate to get that help.
The other thing my husband did during my treatment was once a fortnight he would take off for a day fishing. That was his time out from it all. He just need that to rejuvenate and come back to help me. Not that you have to go fishing but time with a mate or sport or whatever it is you enjoy can help you through this time too.
Best wishes to you and your wife 💐
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