Oh honestly!

Maybe part of the issue is not about whether we want to hear about events or not (that covers a lot of territory), it's about the relevance of the activity. I have no difficulty in understanding that many people might find sharing that experience, on top of a common bond of being diagnosed with bc or supporting someone who has, beneficial and exciting. Personally it doesn't appeal at all. So I just deleted the email. I didn't even look at the cost. As @zoffiel has said, how we choose to use our resources (big or small) is up to the individual.