Hi Trax
Thanks for sharing your story. I met some wonderful woman with secondaries on the weekend at the Young womens conference. They all just want to be treated the same and like you said live the best life that you can live.
I got to admit when a close friend of mine was diagnosed with secondaries I was scared to call in case I didn't know what to say, but one thing for me, was certain, that I would just come out and say that I really didn't know what to say, but there was no way that I was gonna say nothing. I think people struggle for the right things to say, so they say nothing, or worse stay away. My friend appreciated my honesty and we talked for hours, not about cancerm but just everyday stuff.
Great that you have been stable for so long and great that you still have not had to have chemo. It has come a long way.
I look forward to talking some more. School holidays start here in QLD tomorrow, so I am looking forward to no school runs and lunches for a couple of weeks and hopefully even a sleep in (that might be pushing my luck a little)!!.
Tanya