I dont know why im writing this other than i need to express it and i cant think where else. Before bc i used to talk about stuff i was gunna do but i never seemed to get around to it. I had a life...
I saw a counsellor for three months because ‘I wasn’t sure who I am’. A survivor? Still a bit of an invalid? Should I keep doing the same things? Should I change things? And if so, how?
In the end, I changed very few things immediately but what I did change mattered. I still use the thinking my counsellor taught me because it wasn’t rocket science, just stuff I didn’t want to address! The time to do so varies with every individual.