Mongrel disease. Warning, this may be distressing for some

@Zoffiel - I am sad to hear about Ms M.  Thank you for telling us.  It is wonderful that she is taking control of her departure arrangements.
Much better to enjoy her last times with you, no doubt with much laughter and sharing of times you've had together.  Lovely for you and her other friends to have good memories like that.
It is absolutely disgusting that she has to face this battle to get her wishes.
Did you see the movie "Blackbird' which was out earlier this year starring Susan Sarandon and Sam Neill ?