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MicheleR
5 years agoMember
So this morning my daughter cried all the way to school. I pulled the car over and said whats wrong? Eventually she said her friend who she has all her classes with is away and a boy has been bitching behind her back that she is ugly and a lesbian. I said do you think you are ugly? She said no. I said well its noones business if you are a lesbian or not. The boy is probably not very smart and is trying to get good vibes in what ever way he can. She's 15.
What i really wanted to say is tell this kid to f*** off. (Sorry for language).
There is nothing like mother fierceness to bring clarity to my life.
And thats how i have to be for myself too. Unyielding in my support of me. I have to get to a place where if the situation isnt good enough then either change it or say bye bye. I tend to confront problems face first. I have really good skills, im capable and they can either use them and help me or i can share my skills elsewhere. It would be nice to have hair whilst doing all this but whatever. I just think my confidence needs a lift and i need to ensure i get it.
What i really wanted to say is tell this kid to f*** off. (Sorry for language).
There is nothing like mother fierceness to bring clarity to my life.
And thats how i have to be for myself too. Unyielding in my support of me. I have to get to a place where if the situation isnt good enough then either change it or say bye bye. I tend to confront problems face first. I have really good skills, im capable and they can either use them and help me or i can share my skills elsewhere. It would be nice to have hair whilst doing all this but whatever. I just think my confidence needs a lift and i need to ensure i get it.