Are you Caring for a Partner & Parents with Dementia/Alzheimers

I Didn’t know they existed, @AllyJay!  Will look into them, thank you.  I HAVE been using the female Maxi pads during the day quite effectively as they are more like the male shape pads and bigger too .... I am trying to get him into a ‘routine’, of going before and after meals and before bed so there is less ‘buildup’ that makes it urgent at times .... but as the saying goes ... you can lead a horse to water ....