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Hi everyone,

I know exactly what you mean Karen , I have the same headset, I lost a person very close to me and i know where your coming from, but now I think what a privilege it was to know and  spend that time with them and I will never erase our happy memories...It is a good idea Karen, never forget, its a special friend to be added to your tapestry of life...

I say like you I am going to change and i will put myself first , (Kris is in my conscious)   and yes I tend to revert back, I think Its in your make up, always putting others first, but as long as we keep remembering this I think we will be happy within ourselves, I know I work with aged people and I absolutely love to give them my time they don't ask for much just your undivided attention for a little while...

Hope you have a "warm" time in Sydney a bit chilly today...MAD weather atm, shop to hearts delight, Mary Poppins, fantastic !!!!...lucky thing .... kick those heels up....love weekends in Sydney...

Helen glad your coping with the Radiation ok, a daily experience would be totally life controlling for a while...I think I would feel like bringing my pillow....but it will be over soon,

As I said I am not sure what is happening next week with the lunch, I cannot believe this my Mum has been diagnosed with BC  a year on from mine... I am totally lost with this, we are extremely close but I can't be there with her,when this all starts, all the time, as she lives on the Gold Coast by herself.... I havent slept for nights am so worried and daily am madly trying to work out solutions for her which is so hard with the distance between us...I actually don't know what to do, the downfalls of having family spread up the East Coast......She is such a poistive person in all aspects of life and apart from this a healthy person......Life can be very cruel..

So I may turn up or not , just depends on a few things...

Take care everyone

Love Sue x