This might seem silly.

Hi Jan, I remember after treatment had finished in the Breast Clinic organizing my op to remove my port - filled the form out and sat down while receptionist did all the bookings etce - and suddenly said to her, hey the part when it asks if you have been previously sick (ie diabetes, blood pressure or other) should I of put cancer???  Don't know if she changed it or not.  I just say what my grandkids say - when you were bald Granny.