Surgery options for reconstruction in Brisbane

re: withdrawing & coming back, i do the same... sometimes it all get's a bit overwhelming. 
M<y friends all mean well, they all say "stay strong" i guess they don;t know what else to say. But they really just don't understand like all here! 

re: the reconstruction - yes i had heard it's about 2 years at RBWH, i'm not looking forward to that wait! At what point do we actually get referred to a PS for recon & get put onto that waiting list?