So you are new here Welcome aboard a really supportive forum

Hello to Mum of One, Slow and steady I would like to welcome you to the forum.  NO question is silly, it is ok to vent - we get you.... the others here are supportive and more than happy to answer your questions or point you in the direction of information. 
I am sorry you have need to  join our forum, please have a read and ask any questions
Soldier Crab