Heartbreaking for both of you @TinaW and @Zoffiel - can't think what to say to make you feel better without being soppy, and that doesn't cut it in this instance. You need practical down to earth advice and hopefully there is someone out here that has been through similar and can let you know how they come out of it. My implant is stable and I have pangs of pain but they keep reassuring me it is still the nerves settling. I assume you mean the cavity will always fill and you'll need constant lymphatic drainage! What a so and so! Take care