Not that nice

Andrew,your wife has been going through procedures since 2006 -that's 5 years of stress for both of you.That would put a strain on any relationship.I'm guessing your wife is struggling with her body image but at the same time can't bare the thought of any more surgery.The simple solution might look like this:-find a good plastic surgeon,fix boobs,feel better about yourself.But it's far more complex.Can I ask how old your wife is and if you have children? I think these factors need considering.I'm generalizing here but a young woman with small kids or no kids is going to see it all abit differently to a middle aged woman with grown up kids.

 I think most men want to find a solution no matter what the problem is.Women need to talk  it over,want their feelings validated and don't necessarily want an immediate solution suggested.If she is depressed then yes,you need to step in find some help.But otherwise,just reassure your wife that you love her how she is,lots of hugs,and listen without trying to "fix it".Just tell me if I'm barking up the wrong tree!

                             Tonya