Hi there , This is my fourth year since diagnosis of invasive lobular carcinoma, I came out the other end and lived yeh! Ive made friends in my support group that can only understand what its all about and they will be lifelong friends, others just don't get it, the only advice I can give you is its not always great to be superwoman , I found I rushed back to work as I thought this would bring back normality but now in hind sight I should have taken more time of I did feel exhausted and tired but its a weird feeling and I was determined not to let it get to me. Now I have a rare blood cancer and have just left full time work I thought stuff this I need to focus on me, and loving staying home. I wish you all the best. adean