Im Outta Here

Thank f your not leaving.  Yippeee you always bring a smile to my dial. And thanks to @mum2jj I will have a look at that I use an iPhone to post.   

@onemargie, so glad you aren’t leaving. Sending you a hug. 
Paula xxx

DearB said:

F this stupid thing I just did another one of my long scripts and lost it just wanted to say thanks for your support @onemargie. You are awesome and I hope to see you soon back 

Have you checked your drafts?  Just a thought. Often your long ones you lose are saved in there?  Frustrating hey?

Indeed @onemargie....remember, some people can be deeply offensive without uttering (or printing) one single  Anglo Saxon four-letter-word. They can be rude, dismissive, patronising and insulting, all without  a single daubing of colourful paint. Without using bold and clear brush strokes to depict a clear and bold scene, with  which we can all identify. I think people such as these are  far more toxic and offensive than than  folks such as you, who are clear, concise and who wears her heart on her sleeve.  I  love a well placed profanity, I use them liberally  and man....is it catharctic. Sort of like a verbal mega dose  of  super laxative, it cleanses your inner stress. I fortunately am fluent in some of the most  foul language in three languages, including Zulu. It can and does include various implements, domestic animals and exotic wildlife including giraffes and African elephants and rhinos. Assorted orifices are also brought into play, and the bringing together  of these different situations, although not probably anatomically possible, just roll off my tongue. Your truth and inner sincerity  are clearly manifest in each and every post you have  written and I sincerely  hope you will return again soon to brighten  our days (and nights). Tell them Hamba nyela lo mtondo ga lo bongol. A  quaint zulu phrase  involving a  well endoewd donkey!!

Hello Margie 
I don't get on this site much anymore.  However I just read your post and felt sad . I don't swear at all but enjoyed reading your posts and feel sad for you to leave.... please don't. I know what it' like to be in the naughty corner on this site because I've been there not for swearing but for speaking my mind. It is a forum for us ladies the victims of a cruel disease and yet we have people hovering over us condoning our heartfelt conversations reserved for only us .......Do they know what we go through and how we feel NO!!!!! Do they walk in our shoes daily NO! And no textbook can teach you how to comfort us like each other the ones walking in these shoes the wonderful sisters on this forum .  So don't be disheartened petty people are everywhere . If you swear then be it . This forum should be liberal we should be able to express ourselves. We are not schoolkids whoever put in complaints needs to get a life just walk down the street and hear the language in general conversation . It' not even an offence any more. 
Hugz to you Margie x

F this stupid thing I just did another one of my long scripts and lost it just wanted to say thanks for your support @onemargie. You are awesome and I hope to see you soon back here.  

That's great news @onemargie - would hate to lose you. Sending big warm hugs xxxx

I’m so glad you have sorted things and have figured out how much you mean to all of us here!  You have never offended me either, I love the way you say it like it is.  This should be the one place we can be ourselves without fear of being judged.  My husband cops most of my F words and the rest are spilt when talking to myself haha
i hope the break away gives you what you need, but come back to us soon.  Hugs Jane xx

Holy shit so I’ve just read each and every post you all have very kindly written and OMFG I’m being a big sooky la la now! Probably doesn’t help my head was already not in a good place initially from what happened so i feel extra emotional now so thanks for that but in a good way. I didn’t actually realise how much my comments meant to you all. I’ve received just as much support in return though so I do feel I’ve made a difference now to a lot of you despite my “colourful words”  So thank you all again so much. 

I will add that I’ve sorted things via the moderators with the persons concerned as I needed that closure to move on which has helped me and the others involved and my head space.

Im sure you’ll all agree we should all be able to express ourselves on this forum as we are all in the same shit filled boat and we are all entitled to our own opinions especially when it comes to something as sensitive as this shitty disease, and whether  we agree or not with certain advice or comments or are offended or not offended by certain language we all just need to be there for each other no matter what and just be respectful of people’s varied opinions morals and values even if they are different to our own . I know there’s been certain posts that I have simply chosen not to read or comment on for various reasons as I’m sure you all have felt that way as well sometimes. 

I feel very very grateful to have such an awesome group of mates on here and after I sort a few more things out in my little fried up head  I’ll try and get back on the forum. Can’t let the fans down lol (obviously im jolking) biggest hug to everyone and thanks again to you all for your comments and PMs it meant more than you’ll ever know.  That’s enough of the sappy shit now lol. Margie xx