Hi Ladies

Firstly, congratulations for the group in Adelaide. There is one in Launceston, an hour away from me, and they meet monthly.. alternate morning and evening meetings to include those working.

I did attend for a few months, but found on a pension..funds low for travelling etc. and there are  people here already in my area.. the north east tasmania..  I am NOT a local but have been here 26 years .. LOL.

 I am originally from the Launceston and Tamar River area, just north of the city. I have got to know some people here in scottsdale region, over the years. Who knows we may start our own group..to meet for coffee.. or phone contact.. locally.  There is a small network already starting to emerge I feel, but not formally. It is a personal journey for each of us, but also a comfort to know there is " help " out there if / when we need it.

 We may go through the local Community House perhaps..for first contact. I do not like things too " formal ". I am a " free " spirit, but I still remember the " shock, horror and fear " of diagnosis, initially.  If I can help allay someone's anxiety, I am happy to do so etc. I guess.. you have to experience it.. yourself..alone.. then maybe let it.. pass over you.. or reach out to someone if / when needed. I still get times of distress even today..if I do too much and get discomfort etc.. or feel exhaustion after seemingly doing a minor thing. Having yearly tests can cause some stress too. BC will always be a part of me, but not the ONLY part.  Having someone " listen " is a good help at times, and those who have been through BC can understand.

 I am still working out how is best way to " help " others.  Any offers of advice? One strength perhaps.. is I have been through some things. We can only really take life day by day..step by step..so at times of anxiety.. I try and live in the moment more. Going for a walk, etc helps also.. or listening to some nice music.. or phoning a friend.

It is true to say there are many options available to people to reach out for support, to get information and networking, etc.

 I think for me.. locally is what I want to do, but also some contact with the Launceston Group sometimes. I do know a couple of ladies there.

Anyway.. I am still thinking of all you lovely people in SA and wishing you all the best.

 Kathy.