JENNIFERJ
14 years agoMember
hair
Hi all,
Thanks for the comments on the mastectomy bras. Sounds like we all could do with some help. I went to with the Target bra which has been most successful, but with the radio still very red a...
I have always had long hair - wavy but not curly. It was my "trademark". The thought of losing it the first time I had bc was horrendous. I was only 50 and was not married to my partner then. My daughters begged me to have chemo - they would buy me the best wig ever!!!. Anyway the odds weren't enough for me to have chemo and I didn't medically need it so I kept my hair. This time I "lined up" for chemo without a second throught. I amazed myself at how calm I was about losing my hair. My elder daughter bought me a lovely "ear length" wig which was lovely. (I had gradually cut my hair to this length prior to radiation) When I tarted chemo (yes I had radiation first) my husband shaved my head. I really embraced the baldness even though it was a bit scary walking passed the mirror. I spent a fortune on hat, berets etc and "decorated them with lovely bands etc. I was noted for my headwear. Do you look good in hats?? Whilst on the cruise, you could wear a hat all day and no one would know the difference. At night you could wear a nice wide band and decorate it up with clips etc. Have fun with it. If your hair is long enough, there is no reason you can't get a colour. There are plenty of organic products out there. I have been colouring my hair for so long I am not sure if there were more greys or not. My husband wants my hair to grow a lot longer but I like it short now and so do all my family and friends. Gosh it is so much easier and so much less expensive to look after as well. When I told my husband that I wanted to have a haircut, he asked how much it would cost. How would I know? Never had to get a short haircut for about 35 years!!!! Thoroughly enjoy your holiday - you deserve it. Don't forget to tell us all about it. XLeonie