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getting the breast out of life
Excuse the terrible pun in the headding. i was trying to think of something funny :)
Hello all. Im Anthony. i wanted to join here to learn a bit i guess, maybe get some help on some ways .
I have been a bit shy and reserved about myself since early teenage days, when all my friends grew facial hair and muscles. i grew hips and breasts. and yep that meant the rest of my highschool days i wore baggy t shirts and hoodies. i must of been such a pain to my parents refusing to see doctors on more than one occasion. i felt fine and fit. i just....didnt have the most masculin body.
Anyway im 31 now. im starting "finally" to accept my body is a bit different. learnt to not get angry at people if they mistakenly call me "miss, or her.. or she"... but in my sort of "ITS OKAY TO HAVE BOOBS" mental growth, i have learnt that my mums aunties, my grandmother. and my mother all had breast cancer , my mums aunty had it twice, and died from it i have since learnt. i dont have any of those women in my life anymore sadly and i was too stubborn to talk about my own breasts with them when they were alive.
so i guess....i feel somewhat a drift...... 31 year old guy ... im 5ft 9. 55kilos... with "thanks to the lady at BNT" D cup breasts........now paranoid about their health and prospects.............
Big smiles to you all :)
Anthony
Hello all. Im Anthony. i wanted to join here to learn a bit i guess, maybe get some help on some ways .
I have been a bit shy and reserved about myself since early teenage days, when all my friends grew facial hair and muscles. i grew hips and breasts. and yep that meant the rest of my highschool days i wore baggy t shirts and hoodies. i must of been such a pain to my parents refusing to see doctors on more than one occasion. i felt fine and fit. i just....didnt have the most masculin body.
Anyway im 31 now. im starting "finally" to accept my body is a bit different. learnt to not get angry at people if they mistakenly call me "miss, or her.. or she"... but in my sort of "ITS OKAY TO HAVE BOOBS" mental growth, i have learnt that my mums aunties, my grandmother. and my mother all had breast cancer , my mums aunty had it twice, and died from it i have since learnt. i dont have any of those women in my life anymore sadly and i was too stubborn to talk about my own breasts with them when they were alive.
so i guess....i feel somewhat a drift...... 31 year old guy ... im 5ft 9. 55kilos... with "thanks to the lady at BNT" D cup breasts........now paranoid about their health and prospects.............
Big smiles to you all :)
Anthony
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- Well well very intetesting. I guess it makes sense now. I wonder who you would be referred to now? I guess that will be revealed in time.
- Yes, not surprising given monthly pains.
I'm glad they given you instruction on how to stay aware of what's going on with your breasts.
What an 'interesting' day you're having @moose87! How are your spirits? K xox - This is and interesting development Anthony. You might like to read more on Intersex here:
http://www.isna.org/faq/what_is_intersex - I did wonder if something like that may have shown up once you started getting tested. Apparently, more common than is expected. You may start getting answers, now.
- so fairly interesting day here today
No need to be concerned straight away about my breasts as my family history showed it only occured post 50 years old. but i have been given some checks to perform to get a bit of a base line on how my breasts feel.
ive had samples taken "a lot actually" to see if i have a gene predisposing me to BC
oh.............and i have a uterus...........yep. thats the big news..............still waitng for more answers - Hello @moose87 sending you a private message
- well..off for an MRI now.....
- 10.30 update Not a hernia. No bulging and hard to isolate where the pain is. Waiting for xray result Waiting rooms need to put better things out to read. Also didn't realise that one of my boobs is a good finger amount bigger than the other one untill I wore a bra
- @moose87 On the positive side, your blood can be given to anybody in an emergency. You are the universal type. My hubby and daughter both have O- and the blood bank loves them.
- 10am up date . Had abdominal pain heading to my appointment. Doctor suspects a hernia. Sending me for an xray. Blood sample taken I am o-..... Which sucks . ..
