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Sorry, I have only just found this section of the site.  Your situation has brought back memories of how scared I was.  I was diagnosed in Sept 2006 and operated on in Oct 2006.  Initially it was thought that I had breast cancer in both breasts - so my breasts have lots of scars (only visible to close eyes)  My major op was on my left breast - lumpectomy and I had the wider axilliary clearance - no sentinal node option at the time. I then had radiotherapy and am on Tamoxifen.  I chose not to have chemo as I felt that the "add ons" over a ten year period did not weigh up enough for the sick period of chemo.  (this is now quite changed as there are drugs to counteract the sickness) I wondered how my breast would look at the end.  Who cares - it actually is fuller than the right one as I suffer from a bit of lympodema. I treat this with a monthly beautiful massage - what a sacrifice!!! What I'm trying to convey to you is that with family support and a very positive attitude you will come out as a different person.  From my point of view I have gained so many wonderful friendships; had such a lovely experience with treatment with such caring medical and ancillary staff; .  It just goes on and on - I say it is the Best Club I have Ever been in.  (Outsiders think I am nuts!!)  My biggest obstacle has been work - the people are still the same - it is me who is different.  With a positive attitude and the support of ladies who have experienced before you, you are in for the ride of your life!!!  My thoughts are with you today and for your ongoing treatment.  Please put your questions, concerns etc on this site as there is a wealth of "experience" to tap into.  Remember everyone is there for YOU.XLeonie

PS:  Any obstacles that come your way see them as a great opportunity to push even harder ahead.