Farewell my friend...

Your story sounded the same as mine. I saw sue on monday, yellow, frail, but she seemed happy to be out shopping and speaking to the people she knows in the community hub shopping centre. I hugged her, told her id catch her at the RSL for our usual 1st monday of the month cancer group lunch, but on my way home, had this thing going around in my head, ...days, just days away now..... and it was.

Its had me thinking most of the night, and day, What happens when we say goodbye to our loved ones, when we're dieing? What do we see? You know, like when we go to sleep at niht, we close our eyes, drift off to sleep... and then open our eyes, and we're awake! But for those 5-8 hours in between, where its black, and we don't recall anything, unless we're woken up suddenly, ... where do we go??

I had an NDE once, from a car accident in 1986, I saw the light, I was sitting on the edge of a tunnel, looking down on myself being moved around on an x-ray table, and i had alot of nurses and Dr's around me, they were busy. I sat looking down from above somewhere, at the edge of this tunnel. I was relaxed, and felt so calm, and at peace with myself. I recall looking to my left at the light, it was a long way away, and then i said "I'll be alright"... i woke up 8 days later in hospital in intensive care. I was a mess. But when I was moved to a room a few days later, the Dr told me i had died twice, I asked was it in the x-ray room, he said yes, and seemed stunned, I said i thought so. He said maybe he heard someone say it when i was intensive care coming out of the induced coma. Strange, but true. I wonder, if Sue was where i was, and she went to that light. I know, she would have felt peaceful. Bless xxx