It is TERRIFIC having you here, Wendy @wingman - thank you so much for coming on board and listening to our concerns .... hopefully, you will be able to discuss them with your colleagues and form a battle plan ....
We've all had the surgery, some have had chemo, many have had rads and many more are on Hormone Tablets for 5-10 years.
But the biggest thing most of us hadn't factored in - is the Mental and Emotional turmoil that 'takes over' from the physical illness. We are all told about the various stages of our treatment, but this part of it is rarely, if ever, mentioned, yet it impacts us so badly - and for how long? We don't know.
This then morphs with 'going back to work' whilst still on hormone treatment whilst still 'in recovery' from surgery, chemo & rads. I am lucky - I was not required to do chemo and am retired - but I see those who really struggle to maintain a household and work whilst going thru all this.
I am not sure how this could be approached for research? Any ideas?
Are you aware of Liz Oriodan's Cancer Blog? As a UK Breast Surgeon, she developed breast cancer & has had a recurrence as well. She was a very fit triathlete prior to diagnosis. It is an excellent dialogue from a medical professional - she was also caught unawares in so many ways - and she thought she 'knew it all'.
This is a 'must read' for EVERYONE - you will not feel so 'alone' in what you are going thru.
http://liz.oriordan.co.uk/CancerBlog/12 months ago, I was a happy, healthy, retired person with plans for a happy life - I am not that person now.
I don't think Liz is either!
Oh ... and EVERY woman with dense breasts needs to be advised of this at their first BreastScreen, so that they realise Mammograms (even 3D) and Ultrasounds may not pick up their Tumours. My regular Breastscreen Mammogram 6 months earlier did not show it. Both MG & US after detection were inconclusive with my tumours, even tho given the exact location by my GP - only the biopsy confirmed it. ILC It was my GP who found my lumps.