Braca1 positive

Hi guys, so im interested in talking to a few people who have gone through what im about too, i had my first appointment with my breast surgeon. I got diagnosed with the Braca1 gene when i was 18, told they wouldnt touch me until i was atleast 30 and was done with having kids. I had a hysterectomy beginning of the year. Has anyone been in the same boat as I am? They said I need to have a implant reconstruction done first then wait a while to get the actual implants. Anyways what I want to know how painful is it? What questions should I be asking my docotr next visit which is in 2 weeks time?