Hi there Jacqui .... welcome to your new family. There's a saying you can pick your friends but you're stuck with your family .... so girl you're stuck with us forever.
I was diagnosed in January of this year and opted for a right side mastectomy and removal of lymph glands rather than a lumpectomy and some of the glands. Being a betting woman I much preferred the odds with the former action and at 62 considered that my breast(s) had done their job, fed two children etc etc. This was the right decision for me but may not be shared by everyone.
I am fortunate in as much as everything was contained in the breast and hadn't travelled anywhere else but another six months it would have been a different story. I don't need chemo or radiotherapy but am back on "the pill" - Arimidex - for five years.
This journey of mine has taught me that we are all in control of our own destiny and life is what you make it. I have gone back to doing everything as before but with more purpose ... I do Tai Chi and will soon be training to become a teacher, have completed a Community Exercise Leader training course so enable me to work with the elderly, participate in warm water exercise programs and have re-involved myself with my community service groups.
Now through BCNA I am in Community Liaison with the aim of providing support for women in rural areas.
You've probably realised by now that I write the way I speak .... full speed .... but I am also a good listener as we all are ..... so come and chat whenever you feel the urge, or just to pass the time.
Cheers .... Shirl xx