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Hi, yes like the girls say it's always a shock, I think for a while you almost go around in a haze, everything imaginable goes through the brain while waiting. It seems once you get your plan it's like you have some type of control and something just clicks and you say I'm gonna beat this the best I can, even when you have the bad days. I'm 3 years in June and you do get there. Adean xx

I was diagnosed New Years Eve so feeling quite overwhelmed myself. I can understand the heaviness. Once you get into your treatment it will be a little easier but I think the advice given about taking each day as it comes is very valuable! Sounds like you have had  a lot going on, I really feel for you!

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Hi Neanie,  welcome to the best site on the net for support and advice.  I am Triple Negative too, and there is a group of us on the site where you will find lots of information from others who have been right where you are now.  We tnbc's are nearly always Grade 3 when we are diagnosed.  I had chemo & radiation after surgery, and now it is 3 years later and I am feeling fit and healthy again.  There is light at the end of the tunnel, Neanie - just take things one day at a time, and stay in touch with us all.  Big hug.  x Michelle

Welcome to the online network:) Goodness,what a shock to find out that you have BC like this!! I didn't have triple negative,but I can tell you,that these days,BC is very treatable.After the initial shock,which we all go through,the best thing that you can do is try hard to take things one day at a time.Be guided by your doctors,as they are the ones that know your case the best.Try not to google too much,as there is SO MUCH wrong information out there.I was diagnosed 18 months ago.I have had a mastectomy amd chemo.I had my 18 month checkup yesterday,and my oncologist commented on how healthy I am looking.I feel really good,so remember,there is a great life after BC.Stay in touch on here for support and advice.CheersRobyn xox