Feeling ? Just been diagnosed

Thank you everyone from the bottom of my heart x

Hello Esther, all feelings are ok as you negotiate or attempt to negotiate the 'newly diagnosed' experience and continue with what was once 'normal' life. Please insist on quiet 'me' time. I found that family and friends all dealt with the shock of my news in different ways and on a couple of occasions found myself consoling them. It can be exhausting and I found my head space for dealing with day to day business was a bit limited. I let it be and rode with it. Please talk to a breast care nurse about traveling. I lived in NY for a few years and its a long and demanding journey from Oz. If you need to take medications with you make sure you have letters from your Dr or Oncologist - others may be be able to share their experiences regarding this. American airport security is not fun at the best of times - make sure you have access to water as it helps stress - again, a letter from your Dr will make things a bit easier. Yes, just trying to leave the queue can be a major security issue. On the up side, sitting in Central Park or standing with the tourists in Times Square always gave me a bit of a buzz - I'm a country girl so I never quite got over the wow factor that I actually lived and worked there. Enough about me, as Brenda5 suggested, you may well be feeling overwhelmed and that's ok. Ask for help and let family and friends know when you need to retreat and rest.xBeryl

Thats going to be a bit of juggling between tests and daughters stuff. You will pull it off ok though, we all do, even though right you are probably feeling overwhelmed. <3

Hi there @Esther_B sorry you’ve had to join us on the forum. Rest assured when you have a plan you will get your head around things better. Enjoy your holiday. Keep us posited. Once you have more information we can all give you a heap more of advice.margie xx

I was on chemo within weeks of my diagnosis.
Everything in my life came to a halt, I could not leave the house for 6 months for fear of catching something in Woolies, Byron Bay from tourists all over the world, or all those festival attendees who bring their germs from afar... then my legs gave out towards the end so I didn't even get out of bed.
I got everyone to come to me (no sick people,lol) and was surrounded by so much love, it gave the diagnosis some meaning for me.

I cancelled every engagement and refused all invitations.
I'd just retired but was still working a bit for a friend. I was gonna have some fun. 
I was in the middle of renovating my beachside retirement pad.

Within 2 weeks I had turned my life upside down.
All work on the house ceased, I couldn't stand the activity.

But I had no time to wait - I told my 5 children, in 5 different ways, separately.
I'm so glad that all my plans were optional and could easily be delayed (longer than expected, lol).
It took 6 months until I had my first operation.
You're not gonna be in any pain. Does everyone know?
That's the hardest part - making everyone sad...

i waited over 8weeks 

Hello and welcome. 
Oh what shite timing for you.

I waited 5 weeks for my surgery anyway. 

Glad you have a plan. Hope you can enjoy and put the dreaded fear aside to enjoy the weddings.
We are here for you so ask away anything. No question is dumb. Kath x.

Hi esther l wanted to let you know lm 6 years post diagnosis.l will never forget the day l found out and when l had to tell my girls.my daughter will slso be married in 3 weeks and lm so grateful to be here. I wish you all the best .xxx adean

Thankyou so very much it warms my heart...  yes to hear those  words Cancer I was not sure how to react! I plan to be positive, enjoy my daughters wedding and then USA here I come... when I arrive home surgery is organised and then my journey will definitely have started...xx

Hi @Esther_B, I'm so sorry you have had to join us, but welcome. The shock of diagnosis is horrendous. Nothing prepares you for those words "you've got cancer". But we are here for you, please let us help support you through. Xxoo