Hey @Bellablor I hear you loud and clear, I think we can all identify with how you feel right now and have been there. It is hard to watch life go by when you are at home, I know in many ways I felt quite forgotten. I found the hardest time was 4.5 months of Chemo...I really felt that way, useless, hopeless and no quality of life as I once knew it. You do get sick of talking about it, but I think moreso to well meaning friends and family who try so hard but can't possibly understand the depth of what you are feeling. Its the most isolating time in your life. I think getting the Results will be good, because then you will know exactly what it is and what the plan will be. you will have direction and its the knowing that helps alot. Honestly Ive been through this twice, the 2nd time was harder, but you are so validated with how you feel. I wanted to say too...it's actually not about everyone else...its about YOU! we spend our lives making sure everyone else is OK...strangely a big lesson for me through this was to stop doing that. I finally became important...I remember people saying to me I have to do Chemo for my children as Im a single parent. You know what I realised and I said??? If I can't do all of this for me...I cannot do it for them or anyone else. It starts with ME, and this really was the turning point for me, in forging forward one day at a time and one thing at a time. I know how impossible it all seems right now...Ive been there...but I promise you, you will find the strength and we will all be here to help. Big hugs Melinda xo